Stop
Bullying
Apparently, cases of bullying leave an
indelible mark on both the victim and the bully. As such, when
we strive to stop bullying, we are not only helping the victim
and future victims, we are also helping bullies build a better
future. The earlier the bully is corrected, the greater is the
chance of him eliminating his negative
behavior.
Everyone
can contribute to our quest to stop bullying in our schools and
elsewhere. Top priority undoubtedly goes to accepting this as a
clear and present danger that must be
stopped.
Second
priority goes to being able to spot signs of bullying when we
see one. When you see a kid inflicting harm, whether physical
or emotional, on another, call their attention to it so
that they will be aware that you don’t approve of such
conduct. In some cases, this is all it takes for a young urchin
to stop bullying. Many children simply don't know about the
consequences of their bullying on others, and don't think about
it, and once it's pointed out many of them will regret their
actions.
If you
see them doing it a second time even after you reprimanded
them, call his attention again and mark him for observation as
it may be a sign of chronic bullying. Treat it seriously and
find out who you can notify about it, both in school and at
home. That way, you can easily curtail his aggressive actions
before it gets any worse. If you can stop bullying behaviors at
an early stage, the chances of it worsening would be
minimized.
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